We all have that moment in our lives where we feel the most lonely, it might be that you are an introvert, have no family, or have no one around to give you company.
That moment in your life can feel the most devastating you feel the depth of being alone, you feel sad, depressed, broken, and as if the entire world sits on your shoulders,
It can be the most terrifying moment in your life but at the same time, that moment allows you to grow and be who you will be tomorrow.
When it comes to people in love, you might have a partner that loves you to the sky, but at a point in your life, they are not present and all you feel is sadness hidden in your heart.
Your heart feels sad, painful, and broken but your face smiles like everything is perfect. You pretend to lie to your friends that you are okay even when you don’t believe it yourself and all you do is try to be strong and tell yourself, it will come to pass no matter what.
The fact is, it will come to pass, that feeling will one day fade away because nothing lasts forever.
Let’s talk about how you can go through loneliness.
Learn something new
You know the moment in your life where you feel so down and broken inside, is the perfect time to learn something new, it can be a skill, a language. With so many learning courses on Thinkific, Udemy. You can literally learn anything you have always wanted to learn. By keeping yourself busy. You won’t even notice how the day ends.
Go out for a walk
According to science, going out for a walk, a run or jogging will help improve both your physical and mental state. While walking outside, you will literally feel a new feeling.
I felt so alone today and I decided to go around the beach I took the walk and touched the waters for hours. that simple activity managed to make me feel better again.
By the time I came home, I was the new person. Do you ever notice that when you are out, you get to see many beautiful things like cats, dogs, flowers, babies, and many more that just spark a smile on your face and improve your mood?
Besides you can also make some friends when you go outside of the house.
Spend time with your kids
This goes to parents who have kids, As another, I have come to realize that the only thing that can keep my mind sane is my daughter when I feel unhappy. Those kisses she gives on my chics, those hugs all just improve my overall feeling.
We play games together, I take her to the park and play with her, it’s exhausting but it helps relieve all the stress and anxiety.
You can play simple games in the house, do house cleaning together, do some cooking. Those moments can be the best moments in your life to keep you moving no matter what.
The love we get and give as parents makes our days shine even in the darkest days.
Try to find some friends
As a person who moved into a different country, it can be hard to make some new friends but with the right tricks. You can have a few friends here and there.
With so many groups on Facebook and many social apps, finding friends can be easy but take your right to choose the friends fit for you.
Sometimes, the friends we make can make us smile in our deepest loneliness moments.
When you go outside, try to talk to strangers, it might help if you are good at befriending people quickly.
Spend money on new experiences
When I was growing up, we had a saying which said, money spent on yourself is that only money that belongs to you. Why not have fun when you want to have fun.
My father was a man who made some good money throughout his life, but he died and left so much behind, however, he managed to spend as much as he would on his own happiness.
That should be everyone’s dream, don’t overspend, but try to live a happy fun life, go out there in the world and enjoy your life.
You can go hiking, mountain climbing, parks, and vacations. It’s your responsibility to make your life happy.
Rethink about your goals and dreams
At the moment when you feel so down with life, it’s the best time to rethink everything in your life. Think about what your goals are in life and what you want to do for the rest of your life.
Do you want to work 24/7 or do you want to start an online blog or business? Think about it.
Do you want a family, kids, husband or wife? The lonely moments in our lives can be the best time when your brain works with a million ideas.
Always Get the best out of any situation.