Right Now, Most people use sex toys to either find pleasure or to have a climax. It doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship or not, Having a sex toy can spice things up and also help especially if your partner is busy or unable to be there. But the question arises whether it is okay to buy a sex toy for your partner.
Yes, It is okay if your partner has shown interest in sex toys, For example buying a vibrator or a we-vibe can aid in a great orgasm but sometimes, your partner might misunderstand you.
It depends on the kind of relationship you have, For example, she might think, you are breaking up or avoiding her and that is why you are buying a sex toy.
Tips on how and when is buying a sex toy for your partner okay.
Making a choice to buy a sex toy for someone is a big decision, that involves a lot of thinking because it can push your relationship forward or it can mess things up. You have to be careful with such a decision and below are some tips.
1. Watch porn together where sex toys are involved
Have you ever watched porn together with your partner and then decide to discuss what they are doing. Imagine a scenario where you see a sex toy being used by the actor. You can decide to make a comment like that’s hot, I like it, Then, Look at her and see what she has to say.
You will definitely see her reaction whether she likes it or not. If she replies in positive way, then that is a sign that she is open to sex toys and that they excite her.
From such a moment, You can decide to surprise her with a clitoral vibrator, something tiny, simple, and not complex. Besides, It won’t replace your penis.
2. Ask her opinion about sex toys
You can ask her if it is okay to start adding some sex toys into your bedroom to spice things up. All that will make your sex life better.
If you have a great relationship with your partner like what I have with my husband, Asking her directly is a great choice. As you are home in the evening sipping some wine, tea or juice in cold winter. Ask her if she is interested in sex toys and if she is open to using them.
Sex toys can improve things in the bedroom and spice up your marriage.
3. Just Surprise her
You understand your partner more than anyone else, You can choose to surprise her with a sex toy. This can be a combo of many things which include plugs, vibrators, and dildos. She will choose what she prefers.
Best Sex Toy Sellers Your Partner Might Like
Below are some of the recommended sex toys to give as a gift to your loved one.
1. Deluxe Rechargeable Mini Massage Wand Vibrator
Review:” It is a small but mighty little thing. A little bit noisy but it really packs a punch and gives you that pleasure you need. The best part of it is how long it lasts before you need to charge it“
2. Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator
Review: “So glad I discovered this. Interesting sensations. WAY too strong for anything but the lowest setting or two. I probably would have been fine with a simpler, less powerful model.“
3. Lovehoney Wilder Weekend Rechargeable Couple’s Sex Toy Kit (10 Piece)
Review: “The bullet vibrate is great, however you have to go through all the settings to gat to the one you want so switching between them is not as easy. I was excited about the cock ring with the clit stimulation but was disappointing, it limits how deep it can get and it os moving around too much so it doesn’t actually massage the clit. The heavy balls Read more about review stating Great start up set, rechargeable is a game changer. I didn’t grip the idea of but everything else has been great. Material feels amazing, great soze for beginners as well. I prefer using the vibrator on it’s own but when using another toy along it, orgasms are guaranteed.“
4. Lovehoney Wild Weekend Mega Couple’s Sex Toy Kit (11 Piece)
REVIEW: “Have not used the anal toys, penis pump or cock rings so cannot comment on those. As for the vibranting toys, unfortunately they don’t really do anything for me . I bought this when it was on offer, I would’ve been disappointed had I bought it at full price. For me the contents just didn’t do it for meGreat for beginners, however it just didn’t do it for me”
5. Lovehoney Rock My World Sex Toy Kit (6 Piece)
Review : To be honest I’ve only used the 2 suction items so far as that’s all I’ve needed! I have no problem putting them in (with lube), but sometimes taking the big dildo out can be uncomfortable. I stick them onto a chair & ride them. Suction can loosen when juices flow, but I’ve started putting a towel down around them which helps. Definitely recomRead more about review stating To be honest I’ve only Recommmend, this was my first suction dildo & it’s been awesome! Can’t beat hands free!