As life goes on, many women suffer from psychological torture when their husbands lose interesting in having vaginal sex with them.
Some men lose interest in even looking at the vagina or touching it.
What hurts women most is when their husbands no longer want to have vaginal sex but want to have anal sex alone.
When the two couples meet for the first time, things seem okay where both partners are excited to have each other but as time progresses, things change.
After spending some time together, male partners tend to start feeling disgusted with the vagina to an extent they won’t have oral sex with their partners.
Sex is more fun when both partners are engaged in the act and love what they are doing but in some cases, men tend to be selfish when all they care about is only their desires fulfilled.
But first, let’s talk about the possible reasons why your vagina can be disgusting.
Dirty Vagina
Some women do not care about washing their vaginas at all, imagine all the vagina fluids and sweat all mixed and not washed.
When your vagina is dirty, a man loses interest in doing anything with it.
Smelly Vagina
Despite you might be said that he isn’t giving you oral sex, its time to check if you free from infections that can cause bad vaginal odor.
Vaginas tend to have a bad smell when they are infected.
Vaginal infections that can cause a bad odor include yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis
Visit your gynecologist if you suspect having an infection.
Loose Vagina
This is also a reason why your guy might lose interest in your vagina, We all know that when the honeypot loosens, sex becomes less pleasurable.
That is why in some instances, men are forced to have anal sex because the anus is tighter than your vagina.
Having a loose vagina lowers the sex drive among both partners.
You can tighten your vagina by doing pelvic floor exercises or using tightening creams but remember doing pelvic floor exercises is the best option.
If your vagina has none of the issues listed above or any other issue that can affect your sex life then below are some steps to follow.
What to do if he no longer likes your vagina during sex.
1. Talk to him
Communication leads to a better sexual relationship, talking to your partner about how you feel may solve the problem.
Some women tend to suffer silently without opening up to their partners about what they want and how they feel about their sexual relationship.
Someone told me that better sex depends on communication.
2. Find out if he is gay
Time changes things, you might not know that your husband is into men currently and not women.
Sometimes when men become gay, they find vaginas disgusting to even look at so they will decide to have anal sex.
You should find out if he is gay or not.
3. Go to the therapist
After you have talked to your partner but nothing has changed it, then meeting the therapist can be the next step.
In some cases, the interest in the vaginas disappears due to physiological reasons.
Meeting with the therapist would solve the issue.